Monday, May 28, 2018

Dear Wynne, I'm 16

Dear Wynne,


I’m a 16-year-old girl, and I’m planning on running away and becoming emancipated. How can I get my parents to kick me out?


Signed 16 going on 21 




Dear 16, 


The way you worded your question tells me you really have not given it much thought and are not prepared. You cannot both runaway and get kicked out. It’s one or the other. If you runaway - you will not automatically become emancipated. If your parents kick you out - you more than likely could become emancipated but if they kick you out - I’m going to go out on a limb here - and say - they will only kick you out if you do something really awful. And then they will kick you out without resources. The courts that will consider you for official emancipation will say, Nope, you can’t take care of your self - and you are still immature enough to do this XXXXXX that caused your parents to kick you out. We are going to place you in foster homes. The only way to become emancipated is by being emotionally secure and mature. That means talking to your parents and giving them good reasons to agree to allow you to become emancipated. If you do that - then it should be a no brainer to become emancipated. The other ways are to become insanely rich and show that your parents are stealing you blind. Or as some have suggested - show that your parents are endangering your life - but even then - emancipation isn’t a guarantee - you could be placed in a foster home if the court does not see any signs of your ability to support yourself and behave like an adult.

Cordially,

Wynne

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